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Starting university is a big change, and if you’re wondering why you haven’t made any friends yet, it’s helpful to know that you’re not the only one.
Whether you’re studying at Curtin Perth or Curtin Kalgoorlie, it’s normal to feel like everyone else has already found their group. Whether it’s because you haven’t clicked with anyone in your classes, you’re finding it hard to balance work and study, or you’re just feeling shy – the truth is that many students are in the same boat. Making friends takes time, and there’s no right or wrong way to do it.
If you’re feeling isolated or unsure where to start, remember that you’re not alone. There are plenty of ways to meet people and build meaningful connections outside of your classes.
1. Remember that you’re not alone
It might seem like everyone else has their social life sorted, but the reality is, many students feel just as unsure as you do. People don’t often talk about loneliness, but it’s something almost everyone experiences at some point. The first step to making friends is realising that there’s nothing wrong with feeling this way—it’s just part of the process.
2. Join clubs and societies
One of the best ways to meet people with shared interests is by joining student-run clubs. Whether you’re into sports, music, volunteering or professional networking, Curtin offers a variety of societies where you can find like-minded individuals. Both the Bentley and Kalgoorlie campuses have student groups and activities to help you connect with others.
3. Attend campus events
Uni events, social gatherings, and student-led events provide a great chance to meet new people in a relaxed setting. These events can help you connect with others who are also looking to make friends and get involved in campus life.
4. Join an extracurricular program
Beyond clubs and societies, getting involved in extracurricular activities is a great way to meet people while doing something you enjoy. Whether it’s participating in sports, volunteering or attending skill-building workshops, these activities offer a natural way to connect with others in a structured yet relaxed environment. Plus, they help you develop new skills and experiences that can benefit you beyond university.
7. Stay open-minded and take initiative
Making friends requires effort. Say yes to invitations, introduce yourself to new people and don’t be afraid to step out of your comfort zone. Everyone at uni is looking to connect, so taking the first step can go a long way.
If you haven’t made friends yet, that’s okay. You’re not behind, and you’re not alone. Friendships take time, and everyone moves at their own pace.
Whether it’s through clubs, social events or simply getting up the courage to talk to your classmates, making friends at uni will help you feel more supported, motivated and happy throughout your studies.
